Community spotlight: Uni of Westminster Stammer Society

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Omosalewa tells us about setting up a new group at the University of Westminster for people who stammer.

Did you know that there are almost 50 stammering communities and groups across the UK? At STAMMA, we're proud to support these independently run communities, from local groups in Edinburgh and Coventry to professional networks at the NHS and BBC. 

We want to showcase the fantastic work that is going on, and so have launched our Community Spotlight series, where we bring groups from all corners of the nation straight to you.

For December, we have an exciting new group to spotlight from the University of Westminster.

STAMMA: Hi Omosalewa! What made you start your stammering group?

Omosalewa: I'm a postgraduate student at the University of Westminster and I wanted to create a supportive, understanding and friendly space at the university where students who stammer can share experiences, build confidence and feel understood.

I have lived with a stammer since childhood, so I understand the emotional, academic and social challenges it can bring. Knowing that even King George VI faced similar struggles shows the importance of community and encouragement. 

STAMMA: The University of Westminster Stammer Society is brand new. Can you tell us about your group and its members? 

Omosalewa: The group will be a support community for anyone who stammers at the University of Westminster or has a speech difference. Students who want to learn more about stammering and how to support others will be welcome too. The group's mission is to create a safe and open environment where students who stammer can feel heard, respected and supported. 

Overall, the group will be a warm and supportive community where students can grow, connect and feel more comfortable in their voice.

Many people who stammer often face anxiety, embarrassment or misunderstanding in school, social life and everyday conversations. The group's aim is to reduce that pressure by building confidence, sharing coping skills and helping members know they are not alone. We also want to raise awareness across the university, encourage kindness and promote better understanding of speech differences. With support from STAMMA, the UK's largest stammering charity, the group will also link members to useful resources and events.

I am committed to leading this group, and with support from STAMMA, I hope it becomes a safe, empowering network for students across the university.

STAMMA: What will typical group meetings look like?

I aim to make typical meetings calm, welcoming and relaxed. Students can talk about their week, the challenges they faced, and any positive moments they experienced. We will share tips that help with communication, such as breathing techniques or ways to handle stressful speaking situations. 

Some sessions may have short talks, guest speakers or group activities to build confidence. Other meetings will focus on open discussions where everyone can speak freely at their own pace, without judgement or pressure. We may also organise social events, awareness campaigns, or join activities hosted by STAMMA.

Overall, the group will be a warm and supportive community where students can grow, connect and feel more comfortable in their voice.

STAMMA: How has embracing your stammer helped you during your Master's programme?

Omosalewa: Before I started my postgraduate studies, my biggest worry was giving class presentations. I had always been afraid of speaking in front of a crowd because I might stammer. But I heard a voice inside me telling me not to be afraid and to do my best no matter what. On the day of my presentation, I told my classmates that I stammer and might experience speech blocks, but I would still present to the best of my ability. 

Of course, I did stammer during the presentation, but instead of feeling embarrassed, I felt empowered and authentic. After I finished, my classmates applauded me and I felt proud of myself. I even scored over 70/100 on the assessment. It was an amazing feeling to face my fear, speak openly about my stammer, and succeed. This experience showed me that being open and confident, even with challenges, can lead to personal growth and achievement.

STAMMA: Why do you think people would enjoy joining your group?

Omosalewa: I'm hoping people would enjoy joining because they'll be able to meet others who understand what it's like to stammer, share their experiences and feel supported. The group will be friendly and fun, and it will be a place to make friends, feel accepted without any judgment and forge social connections.

STAMMA:  What do you hope to gain from being part of the University of Westminster Stammer Society?

Omosalewa: Being part of this group has already made me feel welcome and supported. I'm excited to meet others who understand what it's like to stammer and to share experiences in a safe space. I hope to gain confidence myself, make friends and learn from others as we support each other.

STAMMA:  Final question! What would you say to anyone who is hesitant about joining a stammering support group? 

Omosalewa: I would say don't worry or feel embarrassed. This group is friendly and welcoming, and everyone understands what it's like to stammer. It'll be a safe place to share your experiences. You can join at your own pace and feel comfortable being yourself.

If you're a student, or work at the University of Westminster and would like to get involved, please email communities@stamma.org

See our full list of Stammering Communities & Groups in the UK and online.

If you feel inspired to set up your own group at your university, place of work or local community, email us at communities@stamma.org and we'll help you.